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Cultural Etiquette in Vietnam

Show respect and connect with locals through understanding Vietnamese customs

Social Customs

Greetings & Social Customs

Vietnamese people are warm and welcoming, but social customs differ from Western norms. Understanding these will help you make genuine connections.

  • The traditional Vietnamese greeting is a slight bow with hands clasped together, though handshakes are common in cities.
  • Use both hands when giving or receiving business cards, gifts, or money — it shows respect.
  • Address people by their first name preceded by an honorific: "Anh" (older brother), "Chi" (older sister), "Em" (younger person).
  • Remove your shoes before entering someone's home. Look for shoes at the door as a cue.
  • Avoid public displays of affection — holding hands is generally acceptable, but kissing is considered inappropriate.
  • Don't touch someone's head, as it is considered the most sacred part of the body.
  • Avoid pointing with your finger — use your whole hand with palm facing down instead.

Temple & Pagoda Dress Code

Vietnam has thousands of Buddhist temples, Hindu temples, and Cao Dai churches. Showing respect through your clothing is essential.

  • Cover your shoulders — no tank tops or sleeveless shirts.
  • Wear trousers, a long skirt, or a dress that covers your knees.
  • Remove your shoes before entering any temple or pagoda.
  • Remove your hat and sunglasses when inside a temple.
  • Ask permission before taking photographs of monks or ceremonies.
  • Speak quietly and avoid pointing at Buddha statues.

Dining Customs

Food is central to Vietnamese culture, and shared meals are an important social ritual. Here's how to navigate dining like a local:

  • Wait for the eldest person at the table to start eating first.
  • Hold your rice bowl close to your mouth — it's polite, not rude.
  • Use chopsticks for most dishes; a spoon is provided for soups.
  • Never stick chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice — it resembles incense sticks used for the dead.
  • It's polite to try a little of every dish that's offered to you.
  • Toasting with "Mot, hai, ba, yo!" (1, 2, 3, cheers!) is common when drinking beer.
  • Tipping is not expected but appreciated — round up the bill or leave 5–10% at upscale restaurants.

Bargaining & Market Etiquette

Bargaining is a way of life in Vietnamese markets. It's expected and can even be enjoyable once you get the hang of it.

  • Bargaining is expected at markets, street stalls, and with cyclo/xe om drivers.
  • Start by offering about 50% of the asking price and work your way to 60–70%.
  • Always bargain with a smile — it's a social interaction, not a confrontation.
  • Walk away if the price is too high — the vendor will often call you back with a lower offer.
  • Never bargain in restaurants, supermarkets, or shops with fixed prices.
Quick Etiquette Reference
Do
  • Remove shoes before entering homes and temples
  • Use both hands to give and receive items
  • Dress modestly at religious sites
  • Ask before photographing people
  • Learn basic Vietnamese greetings
  • Bargain politely at markets
Don't
  • Touch someone's head
  • Point with your finger
  • Stick chopsticks upright in rice
  • Show public displays of affection
  • Raise your voice or show anger publicly
  • Wear revealing clothing at temples

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